Never write while angry or when upset. The rule of thumb all who aspire to write should adhere to, but sometimes the passion rules the pen and you end up printing something you may well live to regret at a later date.
I feel at the moment like screaming to the tree tops how i feel and what has befallen me over the last few hours but the gentleman in me says keep it to yourself. I have a few very trusted friends who will know what i mean here but they are very few. In reality you have to sit down, take some of the grief on board and start over. Letting it eat you and destroy your thought process is a major mistake, it is far better that you chat with those trusted friends and get back out into the world so that you can re-evaluate just what the implications of what has happened really are and so deal with it.
It doesn't matter how nice you are to people or how you treat each one that comes along, life is far from fair and however good your intentions remember they are the pavement to hell. I am fortunate to be someone born with a sense of right and wrong, i have my parents to thank for that, but in the current climate it holds little water and is in fact considered a weakness. How very sad. How very alone it will leave those who are able to worry about others without thinking about it as I know first hand.
If i was to offer some advice on this subject it would be to not act rashly, take it all on the chin and let it wash over you because it's coming whether you like it or not, take a stroll, get back into the normal groove of life no matter how much that hurts and make sure you get amongst good people that you trust and know well. That way you get back to normality a bit quicker and it will allow you precious time to actually put it all in perspective.
As you may be right in thinking, this is what i did today, the first reaction is always the pre-cursor to the tidal wave of emotions but you have to sit tight and not lose your bottle. I am OK with where i am at the moment, not happy admittedly but i wasn't that happy beforehand so i have little to worry about in reality.
Tomorrow is another day and remember always that you are you, there is no-one else that comes close x
I feel at the moment like screaming to the tree tops how i feel and what has befallen me over the last few hours but the gentleman in me says keep it to yourself. I have a few very trusted friends who will know what i mean here but they are very few. In reality you have to sit down, take some of the grief on board and start over. Letting it eat you and destroy your thought process is a major mistake, it is far better that you chat with those trusted friends and get back out into the world so that you can re-evaluate just what the implications of what has happened really are and so deal with it.
It doesn't matter how nice you are to people or how you treat each one that comes along, life is far from fair and however good your intentions remember they are the pavement to hell. I am fortunate to be someone born with a sense of right and wrong, i have my parents to thank for that, but in the current climate it holds little water and is in fact considered a weakness. How very sad. How very alone it will leave those who are able to worry about others without thinking about it as I know first hand.
If i was to offer some advice on this subject it would be to not act rashly, take it all on the chin and let it wash over you because it's coming whether you like it or not, take a stroll, get back into the normal groove of life no matter how much that hurts and make sure you get amongst good people that you trust and know well. That way you get back to normality a bit quicker and it will allow you precious time to actually put it all in perspective.
As you may be right in thinking, this is what i did today, the first reaction is always the pre-cursor to the tidal wave of emotions but you have to sit tight and not lose your bottle. I am OK with where i am at the moment, not happy admittedly but i wasn't that happy beforehand so i have little to worry about in reality.
Tomorrow is another day and remember always that you are you, there is no-one else that comes close x
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